March 2012
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Lol
it doesn’t matter. She totally sent me that message and then blocked me.
In all seriousness though… should I just not respond to her?
I really just need to rant for a minute...
So a couple weeks ago this woman I had a class with (once) responded to a facebook post I made.
The post was about being a fat, genderqueer, eating disorder survivor visiting my family. It was about the intensely body-negative environment I come back to every time I go home. The post was really personal and vulnerable and talked about my dad criticizing my older brother for considering a...
February 2012
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Oops! Where did delisubthefemmecub go?
Great question! The answer…..? Nowhere! I just change the names on my blogs. This blog yr looking at now was a hiatus blog I created a while back. I deleted most of the posts, but left a few pictures of my cute butt and such. If you’d like to return to your regularly scheduled programming and check out my main blog (the blog formerly known as delisubthefemmecub) go here!:
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January 2012
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December 2011
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Xmas survival techniques
Pretending to nap in the living room so people will leave me alone. That’s acceptable behavior, yeah?
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Today I wore my “trans pride” shirt out with my mom (because it would be easiest if the problem is just that she’s forgetting my gender and needs to be reminded sometimes instead of that she just refuses to believe it exists). I usually expect stares in that shirt, I usually wear it in secret with scarves on top or a sweater. But I wore it nothing less than emblazoned across my...
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just thinking about how I came to love glitter and...
and how it’s not actually a very pretty story.
Because first I hated glitter and fabulosity because I was using butch misogyny, and the general hatred of all things feminine, as short-hand for gaining legibility as, at least, a masculine person, if not a man. And because glitter represented something “feminine” that could embed itself under my skin and stay there without my...
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November 2011
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no boy is on the level, believe me
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~beautiful things about feeling affirmed and...
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self-documentation as
self-determination as
self-actualization
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as in, I am becoming myself the moment that I capture myself in the form of a photograph
and demand a body of queer witnesses who affirm that reality.
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as in, I am insisting on my legibility as a man, as a queen, as a queer. And becoming legible for an instant to a handful of eyes on the internet is sometimes a mechanism for...
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i want to write of pretty things
like the way your hair curls
but mostly i just write to survive, it’s
nothing personal
whatfreshhellisthis asked: You're so fabulous
I cannot even HANDLE all your swag
I cannot even HANDLE all your swag
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seriously though my hips are the things of legends
and you fucking know it
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mmmajestic asked: YOU'RE THE HOTTEST EVER GOD DAMN
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that's all for now
hope you enjoyed this hour of gothy boy coquettishness
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brohamsandwich asked: You are so fuckin' fabulous I can't even stand it!! <3
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fagglet asked: YOU LOOK LIKE RIHANNA
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